Veteran and Military Families Month

Issue No. 019 - November 2026

The Holiday Challenge

The holiday season usually brings joy with its festivities, family traditions, and bustling atmosphere, but it can also be difficult for some. November marks National Veterans and Military Families Month, honoring the everyday bravery of veterans and their families, while highlighting the unique challenges they face that are often intensified during the holidays.

Veterans, active‑duty members, and their families may feel the holidays weigh heavily on them, experiencing sadness, isolation from service‑related experiences, distance from loved ones, and an overwhelming burden, especially for those coping with PTSD. 

While the holidays can be challenging for Veterans, active-duty members and their families, there are a number of ways we can surround them with the love and supoort they may need. 

Military Families 

1.Holiday Shopping – Shopping itself can be stressful – during the holidays it’s even more brutal. From dinners and cards to gifts, as people often forget items; offering to pick up anything they need can ease families’ burden.

2. Holiday Dinner Invite – When a loved one is deployed, their empty seat can be heartbreaking; inviting the family to join you provides a gathering place for fun and new memories.

3.Gift Cards – Gift cards are an excellent means of support, covering groceries, Christmas presents, and household supplies, easing the burden on families coping with a deployed loved one and the financial strain of the holidays.

Veterans

The VA offers multiple articles on managing holiday experiences as a Veteran.  Click on the links below: 
 

1. Depression and the Holidays

2. Holiday Loneliness 

3. Holiday Blues

4.PTSD During the Holidays

The holiday spirit lies in caring for those around you; during National Veterans and Military Families Month we should support veterans, active‑duty members, and their families, and this holiday season we need to remind them that they are never alone.

REMEMBERING Lt CMDR SAPP

The Coffee4VETS family and friends join with the Lancaster Elks lodge in honoring our brother in arms in his passing. A true American hero Walter served in Vietnam and here in his community. We extend our condolences to his lovely wife Susan and to all the family. We will keep you all in prayer.

Farewell to a true American hero – Walter Sapp. Your legacy of kindness and dedication of service left an incredible mark in all our hearts. 

Thank You Walter For Your Service. 

Vet Talk

Vet Talk is the brainchild of Juan Blanco, Coffee4VETS’ founder and president. Juan started Vet Talk during the pandemic as a way to help veterans work through the difficulties of being isolated, sheltering at home, and social distancing. Vet Talk became crucial in keeping the veteran community connected.

In continuing with the same spirit of keeping the veteran community connected. Vet Talk is being relaunched. The series will feature 1 monthly question answered by our Veteran community. The monthly question will cover a broad scope of topics, ranging from their lives before, during, and after service. 

This month’s question is: Which moment during your service had the biggest impact on you? 

 Thank You Ralph Velador, U.S Army (Retired) for your service and for taking the time to answer this month’s question. 

 

 

President's Message

Welcome to the month of giving thanks, NOVEMBER.

Leaving Halloween behind and looking forward to Thanksgiving and all the good food, family and football, truly the American past time for all. I want to remember our fighting forces throughout the country and overseas and to wish them a safe and joyous holiday season. Our month begins with daylight savings and moving straight into election day. How fast the year can go by.

This month we celebrate veterans’ day on the 11th and on the 10th, we honor our united states Marines as they turn 251 years of serving and protecting our nation. There are many days set out for special occasions as an example, this month we have Friday the 13th but is also world kindness day and just after thanksgiving there is national French toast day. There is also the 5th of November which is National Redhead Day and on election day, it is also known as National sandwich day. Who knew.

This year on the 7th, the 39th assembly district, Assemblyman Juan Carrillo will host the first Veterans Parade since the early 2000’s and Coffee4VETS along with other veterans’ organizations will be marching in the parade. We look forward to having a great time.

Our Moto: “Honoring Our Veterans of Yesterday Who Secured Our Today.”

Our Purpose: Pride of Service 

Highlight of The Month

October

Coffee4VETS Tuesday Breakfast Program hosted at Club Muroc Edwards AFB and in attendance Col Tauer & Ms. Tauer, Senior Command officers and Command NCO’s, Brigadier General David Smith, CEO Mojave Space Port, and Ben, British Royal Forces all attended to honor and welcome our veterans.  
 
A full Breakfast Buffet with plenty of fresh coffee. 
 
We wish to thank our veterans from Santa Clarita, Palmdale, Lancaster, Rosamond, and California City that attended the breakfast and shared their many stores. After the breakfast the guests was treated to a tour of North Base, the NASA gift shop and Hanger 1414, where the T7, Boing’s newest trainer aircraft known as the Red Tail honoring our Tuskgee Airman of WWII are now the Jets being tested for future pilots. Lots of history learned about the T7 jets.
Wish to thank Edwards AFB Commander Staff, Col Carnduff, Security and Brando Raque, 412th Protocol, Mike Paoli, Public Affairs, and Sara Morgan, Club Muroc.

Save the Date

We Invite You to Join Us 

Happy Birthday

A Very Happy Birthday from Coffee4VETS!  

November Observances

Mark Your Calendars 

National Veterans & Military Family 

National Veterans Small Business Week 

Marine Corps Birthday

Veterans Day 

Armistice Day 

Thanksgiving Day 

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